Exploring the Meaning Behind Dreams of Choosing Family Members
Dreaming of choosing between family members can evoke a myriad of feelings and interpretations that reflect our waking life's emotional and relational complexities. Such dreams can arise during moments of indecision or conflict within familial ties, prompting us to confront our deepest affections, loyalties, and perhaps even guilts. In the realm of dreams, where our subconscious mind speaks freely, these symbolic choices may suggest a yearning to resolve inner struggles or a desire to better understand our place within the family unit.
As modern individuals, we often grapple with the balancing act of personal wants against collective familial expectations. By engaging with these dreams, we can gain insights into how we perceive our relationships and what influences our decisions, ultimately guiding us toward more compassionate interactions both in our dreams and our waking life.
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- Dreams of choosing between family members often reflect inner conflicts or important decisions in waking life.
- These dreams may highlight your emotional ties, love, and sometimes guilt regarding family dynamics.
- Engaging with these dreams can help understand your feelings towards family relationships.
Symbols
- family members
- Alimony:
(Alimony; Maintenance) To provide support for one’s family and relatives in a dream mean prosperity, protection for one’s children and concern for one’s posterity. Whatever expenses one spends to support his family in a dream will be money he will receive in wakefulness. If one finds himself unwillingly giving family support or alimony to his wife in a dream, it means hypocrisy, or that he is nearing his death.
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- Maintenance:
(Alimony; Maintenance) To provide support for one’s family and relatives in a dream mean prosperity, protection for one’s children and concern for one’s posterity. Whatever expenses one spends to support his family in a dream will be money he will receive in wakefulness. If one finds himself unwillingly giving family support or alimony to his wife in a dream, it means hypocrisy, or that he is nearing his death.
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- Family:
(Children; Family; Household) One’s dependents in a dream repre¬ sents richness.
- Alimony:
- kin
- Regent:
(God Almighty; Governor; Mayor; President; Royalty; Sultan) The true King is God Almighty. If the king is pleased with someone in a dream, it means that God Almighty is pleased with him, and if the king is angry with him in the dream, it means that God Almighty is displeased with him. If one sees the king frowning in a dream, it means that he fails to properly perform his prayers or show true religious devotion.
If one sees him smiling in a dream, it means profits in one’s material as well as spiritual life. If one sees that God Almighty has appointed him as a king over a land, it means that he will receive such a regency, should he qualify. Later on, unrest will bring tyrants, or dictators to justice, while people of knowledge and piety will survive and regain their authority.
If one sees himself as a calif or as an Imam in a dream and should he qualify, it means that he will receive such an honor, rank, trust and fame in the land, though his vice-regency will not become hereditary. However, it is a bad omen if he becomes a calif in the dream and does not qualify for such an appointment. In such a case, and by contrast, he will be humiliated and dispersed, and his own helpers will become his superiors, while his enemies will rejoice at his misfortune.
If one sees himself as a king in a dream, though in reality he does not qualify, DICTIONARY OF DREAMS 241 it means that he may die quickly, and the same is true if a sick person sees himself turned into a king. If he is healthy, it means that someone in his family may die shortly. Seeing a king in a dream also denotes exposing hidden secrets.
If a philosopher or a fortuneteller sees himself transformed into a king in a dream, then it denotes glad tidings should he not complain about it in his dream. If a slave sees himself becoming a king in a dream, it means that he will be set free. If one sees himself becoming one of the great kings of this world in a dream, it means that he will attain worldly success in his life, though it will be accompanied with religious failure.
If the person is a natural con artist, it means that he will be captured and imprisoned. If a man sees himself awarded a knighthood that is suitable only for woman, then it means his death. If one sees the kingreprimandinghim in a dream, it means peace between them.
If one sees himself arguing a case with knowledge and wisdom before a king in a dream, it means that he will win his case and receive what he came for. If one sees himself complaisant with the king about his case in the dream, it means that he will lose his case and the judgment will go the king’s way. If one sees himself walking with a king and rubbing shoulders with him in the dream, it means that he will oppose the king or disobey him.
If he sees himself following the king in a dream, it means that he will pursue the king’s traditions during his lifetime or after his death. If one enters the king’s palace prostrating in a dream, it means that he will be appointed in a leadership position and receive the king’s pardon. If one sees himself mixing with the king’s harem, or sleeping with them and should there be signs of comfort, trueness, or wisdom in his act in the dream, it means that he will enter the king’s inner circles.
Otherwise, should he in the dream fear the consequences of what is happening, or if he lacks trueness, or if he slanders them, or indulges in what is unlawful for him to do, then should he reach the king’s door, it means that he will triumph against his enemies inside that palace, and they can cause no harm to him. If in his dream, the king gives him a gift, it means that he will win victory and honor in his life to equal the value of that gift. If the king gives him a brocaded silk garment in the dream, it means that he will give him a wife from the royal family.
If the king speaks to someone in a dream, it means honor, fame, wealth after poverty, release from jail, expansion of one’s business, or victory over one’s enemy. If an appointed governor sees himself looking into a mirror in a dream, it means that he will be dismissed from his post. If an appointed king sees someone who looks like him sitting in his throne in a dream, it means that he will beget a son.
If he divorces his wife in a dream, it means that he will abdicate his throne. To see oneself sleeping with the king in the same bed and without a curtain between them, and if the king leaves the bed while one remains resting therein in the dream, it means that his mixing with the king will incur jealousy, or that he will inherit him. If one leaves the bed before the king, it means that he will escape from a great danger.
If one sees himself sleeping alone in the king’s bed in a dream, it means that he will marry a woman from the governing family, or that he may spend from his own money for the sake of a woman in that palace. If the bed is in the palace though unknown in the dream, it means that he will become a member of that government. If a king hears his subjects praising him in a dream, it means that he will show good qualities.
If his subjects shower him with money in a dream, it means that they speak ill of him or cast blame at him. If they shower him with sugar in the dream, it means they speak nicely of him, and if they shower him with stones in the dream, it means that they will speak harshly of him. If one sees the people paying obeisance and bowing to him in a dream, it means that they will stand humbly before him.
If they prostrate themselves before him in a dream, it means that they truly praise him. If a king sees himself following the opinion of a woman in a dream, it means that he will lose his 242 jLDI^I UUJUXlAll KJ kingdom or fall victim to depression, or that he will be thrown into jail. If he opposes her in the dream, it means that he will escape from a great danger.
If a king sees himself walking in a dream when a common subject comes near him and whispers something in his ear, the commoner here represents the angel of death ‘Izrail, and it means that the king may die a sudden death. Eating from the hand of one’s servant in a dream represents the growing of one’s authority, increase of his business, knowledge, or wisdom. If a king sees himself preparing a banquet for guests in a dream, it means that his opponents will come to argue their case, though he will win over them.
If he sees himself placing food on the table in a dream, it means that a messenger will come to see him concerning a dispute. If the food is sweet, then the problem will end nicely. If the food is greasy, then the problem will be a lasting one.
Sour food then means steadfastness. Eating on the table of a just and a righteous king in a dream means blessings and honor. If the king is seen walking alone in the markets in a dream, it means that he is a humble, just, and a strong ruler.
A sick king in a dream represents weakness in his faith and injustice toward his subjects. If the king is carried over people’s shoulders in a dream, it means lack of faith and lack of attendance to one’s religious obligations, or weakness in his ruling. If the king dies and does not get buried in a dream, it means that the king and his subjects are deviates.
If he is buried and the people walk away from his grave in the dream, it means that one will pursue something of no benefit, unless God Almighty decrees otherwise. If one sees the king’s head transformed into a ram’s head in a dream, it means that the king is a just and a kind ruler. If his head is transformed into a dog’s head in the dream, then it represents his vile nature.
If his chest turns into a stone in the dream, it means that his heart will become like a rock. If one sees his own hand turn into the king’s hand in a dream, it means that he will receive a leadingjob. If one sees the king flying with wings in a dream, it means that his authority will spread.
If his fingers increase in shape or number in the dream, it means that his greed and injustice will manifest. Any dream about a deceased king will manifest in his successors or in his progeny.
- Tracing footsteps:
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- Acorn:
(Acorn; Gull; Oak apples) In a dream, gullnuts represent an endowment or a growing capital investment.
- Regent:
- choosing
- Philander:
(Flirting; Love poems; Philander) Courting a woman or singing love songs to her or displaying amorous behavior for her in public in a dream represents someone who divulges people’s secrets.
- Vow:
(Immolation; Sacrifice; Vow) In a dream, an offering represents the wife who is the delight of her husband, or the child who is the delight of his father. An offering in a dream also represents one’s good deeds, although it also could mean trouble, adversities, enmity, dispute, fight, argument with one’s family, an invasion, or profits from hunting.
- Solemn promise:
(Immolation; Sacrifice; Vow) In a dream, an offering represents the wife who is the delight of her husband, or the child who is the delight of his father. An offering in a dream also represents one’s good deeds, although it also could mean trouble, adversities, enmity, dispute, fight, argument with one’s family, an invasion, or profits from hunting.
- Philander:
- relatives
- Family:
(Children; Family; Household) One’s dependents in a dream repre¬ sents richness.
- Children:
(Children; Family; Household) One’s dependents in a dream repre¬ sents richness.
- Household:
(Children; Family; Household) One’s dependents in a dream repre¬ sents richness.
- Family:
- picking
- Relish:
- Pickax:
(Digging) A pickax in a dream represents strength, resoluteness, or contemplating good deeds. A pickax in a dream also may represent an opportu¬ nistic person who draws people to himself for selfish interests, interferes in everything, or craves wealth.
- Seizing:
(Holding; Seizing) Gripping to somethingby the hand in a dream means buying a new property, renewal of one’s control over something, getting married or begetting a son.
- selecting
- Talbiyyah:
( arb . Talbiyah ) Responding to a call, or uttering and repeating a formula “Labbaika Allahumma Labbaik,” during the pilgrimage season in a dream means that one will capture his enemy and bring him to justice. Loud answering to a call in a dream means complaining before a judge, and winning the case thereafter.
- Vow:
(Immolation; Sacrifice; Vow) In a dream, an offering represents the wife who is the delight of her husband, or the child who is the delight of his father. An offering in a dream also represents one’s good deeds, although it also could mean trouble, adversities, enmity, dispute, fight, argument with one’s family, an invasion, or profits from hunting.
- Solemn promise:
(Immolation; Sacrifice; Vow) In a dream, an offering represents the wife who is the delight of her husband, or the child who is the delight of his father. An offering in a dream also represents one’s good deeds, although it also could mean trouble, adversities, enmity, dispute, fight, argument with one’s family, an invasion, or profits from hunting.
- Talbiyyah:
Practical Guidance for Reflecting on Your Dreams
- Acknowledge Your Emotions
Take a moment to sit quietly and reflect on the family members involved in your dream. Are there unresolved feelings or past conflicts? Write down your thoughts to gain clarity.
Identify whether any person symbolizes traits you admire or dislike, as this could reveal your feelings about yourself or your relationships with them. Connecting daily life triggers to your dreams will help you understand their significance better, as they often mirror day-to-day emotions in a magnified manner.
- Engage with Your Family
Consider reaching out to the family members who appeared in your dream. Having open and honest conversations about family dynamics can foster understanding and strengthen bonds. Such discussions may lead to addressing any ongoing issues or grievances.
Moreover, actively listening to their perspectives can provide insights that may change how you perceive your choices and relationships.
- Meditate on Your Choices
Use meditation to deepen your understanding of the conflict represented in your dream. Picture each family member, reflect on your feelings, and visualize positive outcomes. This practice can illuminate the fears or desires you hold within and guide you toward a more balanced approach in your waking life.
Imagine how you would feel if you made a specific choice, as understanding the emotional impact of your decisions helps solidify inner peace.
- Seek Guidance
If these dreams leave you feeling confused or troubled, consider meeting with a trusted advisor or counselor. Their insights can offer fresh perspectives on your family dynamics and decision-making. They can help you navigate this emotional landscape, enlightening you to patterns or themes that may not be immediately apparent.
- Document Your Dreams
Keeping a dream journal can be an enlightening practice. Each morning, write down the dreams you remember, focusing on details and feelings. Over time, patterns might emerge in your dreams related to family members and decisions, helping you further interpret their meanings.
This tool not only aids reflection but also encourages a deeper connection with your inner self.
FAQs
- What does it mean to dream of choosing between family members?
Dreaming of making choices among family members often indicates deeper emotional conflicts or decisions that you are facing in real life regarding your relationships. It reflects your desire or need to prioritize certain familial ties, potentially revealing feelings of loyalty, guilt, or love.
- Can dreaming of family members indicate specific relationships?
Yes, specific family members in your dreams can symbolize particular aspects of your personality or experiences. Each individual's traits may resonate with how you perceive them in reality, and their presence can bring to light unresolved issues or aspirations concerning those relationships.
- Are all dreams about family members meaningful?
Not all dreams hold significant meanings and can also be reflections of day-to-day thoughts or worries. However, when family members are involved, especially in contexts of choice or conflict, it often signals that something in your familial or emotional life needs addressing.
- How can I interpret my dream about family members accurately?
To accurately interpret your dream, consider keeping a dream journal, reflecting on your feelings during the dream, and analyzing your current family dynamics. Engaging with these feelings and speaking with family members can also provide clarity and insight.
- What should I do if the dream causes distress?
If your dream leaves you feeling unsettled, take it as an invitation to examine your feelings about your family relationships more deeply. Seeking support from a counselor or trusted individual can help you process these emotions and decide on the best approach to improve your familial connections.
